October 8, 2004
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I have been very bad at updating my site frequently. Bad, bad, bad Romanta! I just want to say, that I am very thankful to every one of you that take the time to subscribed and read my post. Your comments are most certainly welcome. I promise I wouldn't take offense to anything said; especially under the right intentions.
This post is a response to a comment by Michel whom I think misunderstood my entry.
Michel's comment:
Romanta I have read attentively your story . I think (a ) parents must not have a child only for their needs ( you say " benefit ") . They have to give themself to the child and not to wait for a return . They risk to be deceived later . I add a child needs a father as much as a mother . I hope your wonderful son that I see on the back ground is able to love his father , too . Whatever your question is very interesting .I hope I have not offended you .
Romanta's response:
I absolutely agree that a parent must not have a child only for their own needs. And, I would never consider having my son as a benefit ... more as a blessing yes, but not a benefit. The question at the end of my post from my previous entry wasn't asked by me, but, was asked by another person and my entry was my answer to that person.
As for Javon's Dad he's very much so in his son's life, and they adore each other. Javon is definitely a Daddy's boy if I might add. From my own personal experiences I know what it's like to grow up without a father so when i have a honest, hardworking and loving man wanting to be a father to his son I would never try to make it difficult for him regardless of what my relationship is/was with him. Even though we might have failed as a couple i don't see us failing as parents individually. I hope this statement was able to correct any misunderstanding from my previous entry.
Please continue to post your wonderful comments and questions and know that I love it when you feel free to speak your minds. Also, know that I truly respect what is said on your behalf.
If by any chance i feel as though I was misunderstood I will try my best to explain what I meant and hope my explanation would clarify things.
In ending, have a GREAT weekend everyone.
Comments (6)
have a great weekend!
hey girlie..i totally understand where you are coming from...have a great weekend..
donna
Hello Romanta . I confess I was waiting this answer and I have to say I like it very much . There was , indeed a misunderstood and your answer is very clear . I thank you and wish to Javon and yourself all the happiness you deserve .
Thanks again for your answer , my friend .
Love
Michel
Hope you've had a nice weekend, Romanta
). Thank you for your lovely comment on post about my dad. It is somewhat comforting to know that I am not alone in this heartache. Thank you <333.
okay that was suppose to say c0mment. Haha...not dignity.
nice site u got...just random props...take it easy hope u return some props
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